von Paola Rivas
Is kind of a cliche what we all seem to know, however for some strange reason, between theorie and practice there is a kind of ‚gap‘ where the will, courage and faith are tested. Why forgive someone who has been conscious or unconsciously mean to us? Let me share my point of view and maybe it helps out. To begin with, because even in our visual spectrum many things slides out, carrying grudges creates low frequency vibration of our electromagnetic field, for many called ‚aura‘. Basically depending on what frequency you are vibrating in, is the lens you will be using to manifest your own reality. Low vibration frequencies not just brings and keeps the emotional mood down, but also as well weakens the immune system, which translates in more open chances to getting sick more easily. And last but not least, to mention that all emotions that are not properly processed, will be kept in the physical body.
Then as result, somatized later as chronic illness, degenerative deceases, arthritis and so on depending what is the grudge – attachment one is refusing or struggling to let go.
The body always will speak what the mind pretends to keep quiet. One doesn’t get to do a forgiving work for the other who hurt you, but for the good of the own self, because we deserve our own peace. Observe, realize how much time, energy and attention one gets to waste on irrelevant or non trascendental matters, and sarcastically funny, even after the conflict ended, we tend to be so stubborn and blinded on our own anger, that we decide to unnecessarily keep it for hours, days, sometimes even years. There has been studies and interviews about patients in paleative treatment or with severe diagnosis knowing that is matter of little time for (la flaquita) translation from the Spanish ‚the skinny one‘, a.k.a. death to come. Is a know fact that death and life are co-existing one on each other. We all realize that all that has a begining also will eventually have an end, question here, is.. what to decide to do with the time given? Let’s make a quick exercise, if somehow you knew today was going to be your last day on earth and life as you know it, what would you do? Will you go out and hug your loved ones and tell them how much they mean to you and enjoy the best of the day? Or go jump off the bungee, ski diving, dare to do that one thing that due to lack of self trust, fear or being or feeling embarrassed you never did? Or use that last day to sit and remember all the hurt, the bad, the grudges and feeding them until your last breath? What would your choice be?
What if I told you, that there is a cosmic bank account for each one of us, and everyday each person gets 86,400 on the currency you prefer, catch here is that it needs to be daily fully spent, nothing can be kept or saved. So, if a person who is having a bad day, not sleep well, has financial issues, broken heart, lost the job, is hungry or just annoyed and decides to hack your account and steal some of your balance, will you worry for this little amount? knowing there is way much more than enough for you not to worry.
Well.. in 24 hrs, there are 86, 400 seconds.
Forgiveness will not only help improve your emotional and physical health, but also unties karmic energetical knots for good.
© Paola Rivas 2024-12-19