Going Through A Series Of Setbacks?

Going through a series of setbacks? It can make you feel as if it hit you like a ton of bricks—or serve as a catalyst to move forward, your choice. Like Albert Einstein wisely said, “you never fail until you stop trying”.

But what if it feels impossible? In reality, it’s only your mind that can drag you down. Failed that exam? You’re not stupid; in fact, there’s no person who is really “stupid”. That partner left you? If it was meant to be, there wouldn’t be a “separation”, or a “break”. Those bullies won’t leave you alone? They are no better than you; in return, you are better than they are trying to make you view yourself—don’t give them that power. Got fired? God closes a door to open another one—or a window, but you won’t stay in the dark forever.

But, what if you’re being your own setback? Or do you need to make that big change? Or maybe both? Change that job—your boss needs you more than you need them, even if it might sound absurd. Dump that toxic person—whether it’s a friend, a partner, or in some cases even a family member—you’re not losing a thing. Move away from that country—it’s not “your home” if it’s a toxic environment. Try out that one thing that you never dared to—not trying is more of a failure than a failed attempt. Transfer away from that college—there’s no worse than studying yourself ill. 

I know, I know, easier said than done. It’s understandable to feel that way, especially when faced with numerous setbacks. However, finding inspiration again is possible, even in the middle of any challenge. It may require some introspection and a shift in perspective, but nothing is impossible—unless you trick yourself into thinking it is.

Start by reflecting on what truly matters to you and what brings you joy. Reconnect with activities or hobbies that ignite your passion and make you feel alive. Surround yourself with supportive and uplifting people who encourage you to pursue your dreams. Setbacks are not permanent roadblocks but opportunities for growth and resilience. Embrace them as valuable lessons that propel you forward rather than hold you back. Above all, believe in yourself and your ability to overcome obstacles. With determination and perseverance, you can find inspiration anew and continue on your journey towards success and fulfillment.

The path may be difficult at times, but with determination, courage, and a positive mindset, you can overcome any obstacle and emerge stronger and more resilient than ever before. So go forth with confidence, embrace the challenges that come your way, and know that setbacks are not the end of the road, but rather the beginning of a new chapter filled with endless possibilities. Remember, you are stronger and more capable than you realize. Don’t forget to trust in yourself, your abilities, and your inherent worth. Keep pushing forward, even in the face of adversity, and never lose sight of your dreams, aspirations, and above all, your well-being.

Sincerely yours,

ThePositiveVendetta